Being a good listener means much more than just listening with ears. Eyes mean that I should look at you while you are speaking as a sign of respect. In other words I should not watch TV, or look over your shoulder at other people while we are talking
作一名好的傾聽者,決不只是“用耳朵聽”。“目”字的意思是,你說話時我應當看著你,這是尊重對方的表現。換句話說,當我們在一起談話時,我不應當看電視,也不應當越過你的肩膀瞅著別人。